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Elder abuse: signs and symptoms

June 15th is World Elder Abuse Awareness Day. People across the world use their collective voice to raise awareness about abuse against older persons. Elder abuse is an issue that affects millions of older adults and has negative effects on their health and well-being. It is estimated that 16% of older adults over the age of 60 have been affected by some form of abuse. Doing something starts with an awareness of types, the signs and symptoms of abuse, and risk factors.

COVID-19 pandemic and increase in abuse of older adults

During this COVID-19 pandemic, there have been reports of increased calls to helplines regarding abuse concerns, so the percentage may be even higher than the estimated 16 %. The CEO of CanAge, a national seniors advocacy group, states: “On a usual day, one-in-five older Canadians are subject to elder abuse. We are seeing a tenfold increase in elder abuse across the community.”

This increase of abuse may be due to being isolated, since isolation is known to put older adults at risk of abuse.  Elder abuse is now more hidden than usual. Isolated older adults are likely to have few people around them (such as homecare workers, other family members)  to either notice if something is wrong or to ask for help. Some older adults are living with their abusers, and this can make it hard to reach out for help.

Of course, most Canadians are now aware of the abuse of older adults in some long-term care homes, an awareness brought to the forefront in a military report.

Definition: what is “elder abuse”?

The Government of Canada defines “elder abuse”  as “any action by someone in a relationship of trust that results in harm or distress to an older person.”

Types of abuse

Physical abuse is probably what we normally think of when we hear the term “elder abuse.” This type of abuse occurs when an older person is beaten, punched, kicked, scratched, pushed, has their hair pulled, or experiences any type of physical trauma that causes a physical injury, impairment, or even death. Restraining, confining, and forcing an older adult to inappropriately use drugs also counts as physical abuse.

Emotional or psychological abuse occurs when a person in a position of trust uses verbal or non-verbal tactics against an older adult in order to:

  • Intimidate through yelling or threats
  • Humiliate or ridicule
  • Ignore or neglect the person’s needs
  • Isolate the person from their circle of family and friends
  • Terrorize or menace

Emotional abuse can leave scars that are just as painful as ones caused by physical abuse. It can undermine a  person’s confidence and make them afraid of everyday situations and people, causing them to turn inwards as a result.

Older adults can also experience sexual abuse. This occurs when someone forces the older adult to engage in sexual acts without their consent. Examples of non-consensual sexual acts include:

  • Rape and molestation
  • Forcing the person to watch or take part in sexual acts
  • Forcing the person to view pornographic material
  • Forcing the person to undress for reasons other than to change clothes or bathe

Neglect can occur when caregivers (paid or unpaid) are:

  • Not aware of the needs of the person in their care
  • Unable to commit to their caregiving roles for various reasons
  • Overwhelmed with balancing their caregiving duties along with their personal lives and careers

According to the Government of Canada neglect can become abusive when a caregiver willfully or inadvertently fails to provide for an older person’s daily living needs such as:

  • Food and/or water
  • Shelter
  • Clothing
  • Medication and/or medical attention
  • Assistance with basic necessities, such as hygiene and socialization

Financial abuse of older adults is “the most common form of elder abuse in Canada” . Financial exploitation of an older adult involves unauthorized use of their funds, property, or their private information in order to steal from them or others.

You may be interested in tips on how to protect yourself from the various COVID-19 financial scams and frauds that often target seniors.

Signs and symptoms of abuse

Injuries such as bruises, cuts, broken bones, sprains, burn marks, scratches, etc. especially if they repeatedly result in trips to the ER. The abuse of  older adults can be difficult to pinpoint and not everyone displays the same signs and symptoms. Be on the lookout for:

  • Fear or anxiety towards a caregiver, family member, or health care provider
  • Poor health, nutrition, and hygiene. Rashes, open wounds, or sores could indicate dirty or unsafe living conditions,  neglect, or an untreated illness
  • Large withdrawals from their bank account, changes to wills or power of attorney, new loans taken out in their name
  • Hoarding, depression, or social isolation

The link between abuse of older adults and ageism

According to a Canadian research survey, ageism is more tolerated than racism and sexism in Canada. Ageist attitudes and assumptions can feed and justify abuse. Older Canadians reported that the most common forms of age discrimination they face are:

  1. Being treated like they have nothing to contribute (38 %)
  2. Being ignored or treated as though they are invisible (41 %)
  3. Assuming that seniors are incompetent (27%)

When you suspect abuse: what to do

If you suspect that an older adult is being abused, please seriously consider reaching out to one of the many provincial and territorial resources for help.

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  • Judy Hartley
    Mon Jun 22 2020, 23:53
    How can I share only the Elder abuse section? I particularly want to share the information on mental elder abuse.
    • JaneVock
      Tue Jun 23 2020, 09:04
      I think you just cut and paste the section you want to share.